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The Panic Between Texts

They read it. You wait. Minutes pass. Then hours. Then a spiral. You’re not crazy. That’s your abandonment wound talking.

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Kathy ♥︎
Jul 29, 2025
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Let’s get real.
It’s just a message.
But when they don’t reply…
Your chest tightens.
Your thoughts race.
You go from “They’re probably busy” to
“They hate me. I ruined everything.”

Sound familiar?

You’re not needy.
You’re not clingy.
You’re not overreacting.

You’re trauma-responsive.

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